How to Court a Woman: 15 Smart Ways to Do It Like a Classy Gentleman

#6 It’s not about the sεχ. Courtships don’t focus the relationship around sεχ. Actually, it’s completely the opposite. More conservative people won’t even hold hands or kiss until marriage, but you don’t have to take it that far.

Basically, you hold off, as long as you feel is enough, before having sεχ. I know sεχ is important and I’m a strong advocate for test driving the car before you buy it. But, you don’t have to jump into bed on the second date. This is the time where you’re really learning about this girl and seeing if she’s emotionally and mentally compatible with you. Then, go about having as much sεχ as you want.

#7 It’s all about family. Courtship has a very strong sense of family tied into it. Okay, this doesn’t mean your entire family attends your dinner dates, but your family to an extent is involved. You want her family to approve of you and your family to approve of her.

Also, since courting is about marriage, you also are looking for someone who is interested in starting a family and values the importance of family.

#8 Be open with her about what you want. You need to be completely open with the girl you’d like to court. Let her know exactly what you’re looking for. Don’t waste your time courting a girl and finding out she’s not interested having a family or getting married.

When you meet a girl, maybe not right away, but eventually, you’ll want to let her know of your intentions and what you’d like in your future. If she doesn’t want the same things, well, you didn’t waste too much time.

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