1. Communication is infrequent.
You never know when this person is going to pop up back into your life and pretend like it’s no big deal. You rarely have a ‘real’ conversation with this person because they ghost you for a few days and out of the blue ask you how you are.
2. You’ve never been on a proper date together.
You’ve done the booty call, and the ‘Netflix and chill’ nights with this person. But you’ve never been asked out on an actual date with them. You’ve never even done happy hour with them.
3. You only see each other during the evening or night time.
If you think this person is going to ask you to hang out on the weekdays when the sun is out, forget about it. When you are only seeing them during the later hours of the day, I really doubt this relationship is heading towards the alter. This person should be proud to be seen with you, not the opposite!
4. You’ve never had ‘the talk’.
You’ve never had a serious talk about what you two want or don’t want from one another. Actually, you don’t really spend a lot of time talking at all!